Don't chase someone who won't chase after you. Don't give to someone who doesn't appreciate you. NEVER push a loyal person to the point they no longer care. It takes work to get a person to that point and once there . It's hard to repair the damage
Be careful who you vent to. A listening ear is also a potential running mouth.… Choose to share personal details only with few trustworthy & close people. That way you avoid sharing to someone who will go about Gossiping about you.
"I distance myself from people for a reason." Yup, I'm far too sensitive when it comes to absorbing peoples energies around me. So I need this alone time to re-calibrate heart and mind aka positive energy flow~