This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.
A Real Man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, NOT from his feet to be walked on and NOT from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal.
"You don't find your worth in a man. You find your worth within yourself… and then find a man who's worthy of you. Remember that." So please don't try to seek out your worth in approval from a man & own his personal opinion, because he's only human.