when your child means more than some dumb man does! Every word! The kids hurt in the end and over my dead body will I let you hurt him again! It is my job to protect him from anyone and I will do so till the end!
When you make a decision to have a child you're also making the decision to take responsibility for that child. You don't abandon your obligation as a parent because you have "other plans". I'm over deadbeat parents!
Being a real parent isn't dumping your kid off for a year while you snort you life away, and defraud the government for endless amounts of welfare, and dump all your other kids off with all their daddies.