the only time you should ever misgender someone is when they're not out to someone and you have to mention their gender/pronouns<<and/or when you're not sure if they're out to someone or not, err on the side of caution-protect your friends
I hate when I get marked for using incorrect grammar, when in fact, I'm using a gender neutral pronoun. =) And it's so annoying when I specifically tell someone my pronouns, but they insist on using "SHE"
I have corrected people on my pronouns so many times yet I'm still constantly referred to as she. No matter how many times I tell them not she - they.<<<I want my friends to start using they/them pronouns, but I'm to afraid to come out.