"Alis volat propriis" pendant -- Latin for "she flies with her own wings." For the smart, strong, independent woman who, by virtue of her hard work and determination, has made a place for herself in this world. Also Oregon State Motto.
Never depend on someone else to make you happy. Only God can make you happy! Create yourself a full, happy life, seeking God and finding hobbies and ways to express your gifts, and your man will be included in your happiness, a gift from God.