Just keep walking, and don't bother with the "once you scratch the surface" part. Unless you are in my intimate circle, it matters not to me what you think or what you believe 'cuz you're just joe public at that point. The rest is just plain true though.
INTJ's generally withhold strong emotion and do not like to waste time with what they consider irrational social rituals.Yes, ant for the most part, I can understand that, but from time to time it can be really bothersome.
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I worked for 20 yrs for a certain Federal agency. It was said that people rose to the level of their incompetence - the more incompetent, the higher their position. Over the years, I observed this to be sadly true.