Narcissists are extremely sneaky. They will use your reactions to what they have done to you, in an effort to make you look crazy. They do this by telling others only half of the actual occurrence, and conveniently leave out their actions.
Being jealous she never cares to respect your boundaries or your private life. Constant indulgence becomes a part of your life but she also cleverly disguises it. She fakes love to earn the trust of her son.
"The thought of this gives me comfort. You and I both know what happened. Stop playing poor me and seeking attention [with lies and unfair false accusations and forgetting the consequences of not taking responsibility for your behaviour and actions].