Hauling ass as usual. Lots of good news. Plan- floor, poly, trim, finish living room, have fun, be nice, don’t say hurtful things or expect unreasonable shifts. I can’t go along for the ride of her moods. I’m happy and decent and loving every day. Then discuss. See where you are at. I know where I am and and where I’ll be. I can’t let her drain her own community system and mine.