Just because it comes in pretty packaging doesn't mean there is any depth of a kind, loving and decent person. Beautiful person on the outside doesn't mean beautiful person on the inside. (Beauty Soul You Are A)
If someone treats you like shit, just remember that there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people don`t go around destroying other human being. -Abraham Hicks How to deal with difficult people th.
there is always an agenda. wanting to help is an agenda. it just depends on whether you are seeking something only for yourself or for all involved. and, if you recognize that helping can be saying, "No." for the benefit of all.