Arrogance, the passionate need to be Most Right is something powerful to guard ourselves against - it limits us more than it benefits. Those who have sincere and Masterful Humility have many followers, many friends.
We all have our own Path. Even though, the position of another might be truly, 'in the way', in 'our way', it is just Perfect for Them. Try to open your heart and allow that for another :-) Generosity of spirit is a beautiful gift!