INFJs are especially sensitive to unexpressed anger and conflict, whose presence is usually denied by others.This contributes to the sense of separateness from others. and i really feel this hidden anger sooo much :(((
"Shallow and menial conversations of everyday life can confuse and frustrate INFJs. We would much rather ask for life stories and sincere problems. When we ask "How are you?" we mean it on the deepest and sincerest possible level." - Indeed we do!