I don't believe that GOD ever tells us "no". He has three options, Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind, Just be patient. The best collection of quotes and sayings for every situation in life.
I know at least one thing is for certain: God loves me enough to have sent His son to die for me so that I may live with Him forever. That brings me joy and what other say about me doesn't matter as long as this remains truth.
Psalm "Whom have I in heaven but You? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but GOD is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." My favorite verse of all time.