i think you only smile for those kind of "what's if" if you you tried but the odds were agains you. Long distance relationships are not easy, but you should never give up for a couple "What ifs" without trying first
When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you maks of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you were not the one to give up.
I feel fortunate that I can see a person's soul, but so sad that sometimes the other cannot see it for themselves. How my heart aches. Thank god I found the one man who exceeds his highest potential every day!