In the end You’ll know which people really love you. They’re the ones who see you for who you are and no matter what, they’ll always find a way to be at your side. - the one who left and didn't listen never really loved you he loved the idea of you.
This is one I have had to work on. Another pinned-My mom taught me this when I was a kid. I've handed it down to my son. He knows I can accept a good reason, but never some lame excuse. Thx mom, a great rule!
NO it is not a HAPPY moment. It is a terrifying moment. Happiness may or may not come later. You'll be happy if you made the right choice which you will never know in the present. Letting go can also be the most devastating thing.