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My child Balie Jo

My child did exist. People often think I'm just holding on and not letting go of my grief. I usually don't talk about my loss due to grief. I just want people to know our baby existed.

"At least you can have more children...  At least she didn't suffer...  At least you have other children... At least you got him for ______ hrs, days, years...  At least __________."  There is no "at least" in child loss. Period.

If someone you love loses a child (during pregnancy or at any age after birth) simply express your love for them and your sorrow for their loss; NEVER use the phrase "at least"!

I have found this to be absolutely true.... You can't try to have your mind try to assist you with the grieving process... The heart and your emotions are separate all together and will play out its own effects separately.

I have found this to be absolutely true. You can't try to have your mind try to assist you with the grieving process. The heart and your emotions are separate all together and will play out its own effects separately.

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"I had my own notion of grief.there is absorption.you endure.an element of yourself - An alteration of your being. A new definition of self. -Grief, by Gwen Flowers

Life without my lovely daughter Chevon 09/15/1989 - 04/11/2001. Life without my beautiful Desi girl 02/23/1981 - 04/11/2001.

Life without my lovely daughter Chevon - Life without my beautiful Desi girl -

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I just miss you terribly Mom. I want to hold your hand and feel your hug.I just love you and miss you Mom.

It's just so hard...

It's just so months ago I was in shock at your diagnosis 5 months 16 days after your death I still cry every night

Everything  changed  when we found out about this BS. It is so unfair. You started out sick as a little kid. You deserve a break.

a heart full of memories of 'before' Mothers Days as I hold you close Mommy tomorrow on a Mothers Day without you here---another 'after'.

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