"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" ~ Albert Einstein - Focus on where your strengths lie, not your weaknesses.
Alpha Male vs Beta Male - learn the differences. Many men try to act like Alphas but they can't carry the deception on for long, their true qualities always show through. I have known the beta male all too well!