While peonies aren't in-season during the winter months, they're typically available all year round. Paired with soft textured dusty miller or lamb's ear leaves, these flowers can make a stunning winter wedding bouquet. Photo from Weddingomania .
If you are inviting kids. I like these ideas: -A kid drink for the toast (like cookies and milk) -Activity sheets/placemats/crayons -Legos/playdoh -Hire "babysitter" like a 13 yr old cousin -Kids open candy/snack bar