i woke up at 3 AM to go do some thing for cheer (the food bank at ch and a lady gave me a tape gun and i was like A GUN! then i shot the lady and my friend and i was like PEW PEW PEW then the lady was like stop and my friend took my gun.
This is true in many aspects, doing anything against a lesser person will ultimately bring you down to their level, therefor when you go back up to playing against, or in this case arguing you will now be the lesser.
As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good, I was actually being re-directed to something better. I so need to remember this right now and remind myself that there's better out there for now.