So true. If you don't want to be a part of my kids life, don't! But don't make them a part of your life when it's convenient for you. Sadly I know several ppl that should be more involved in my kids lives.
Other people who aren't aware of all the circumstances may judge you, but it's okay. You must have peace in order to heal. Maybe when you are whole and healthy you can deal with them more wisely in the future.
Someone from Vista, California, US posted a whisper, which reads "do you ever tell someone something and they don't react the way you wanted them to react and you immediately regret ever opening your mouth "