I didn't choose to get cheated on. I didn't choose to loose my husband to other women. I didn't choose to have our family drstroyed. I didn't choose to stop being loved. I tried to give chances. I tried to get us help. I tried
3 & 4 among many, many other signs not listed, was enough for me to walk away. Thankfully I got out at the tail end of the idealization stage. the devalue stage was kicking in. Six months of living with this twisted man was FAR too long.