Whether it's a situation or a person that seems to be creating havoc in your life, ask yourself, is it worth it? Is it worth being unhappy for? If you want change, you have to start with being the best version of yourself. Focus on you, because you can't make other people change. If it means cutting ties with the other person, then do so. Things will change when you take the next step. But, only you can decide to take the first step.
Many of us struggle to know who we truly are deep inside. We walk around with masks trying to impress others, while we feel lost, uncertain, empty inside. We are disconnected from our trueself; from who we are at a deeper level. We look for shiny things to help complete us, to make us whole. This is a temporary fix. Finding your true self brings peace, strength, love, and respect. Finding connection with yourself brings deeper enjoyment of life.
We either act from a place of #inspiration or from a place of #desperation. When moving forward with #decisions, ask yourself if your actions are #inspired or #desperate. Do you feel #peaceful or #anxious? There's a big difference between feeling nervous but #excited and #nervous but anxiety-ridden. As long as you are being #honest with yourself and your #feelings, you will know the answer. #loveyourself #love #selflove #relationshipwithyourself Www.tamarahanson.ca
Someone's opinion of you does not determine your #worth. Your #value is dependent upon only one person's opinion: Yours. If we wait around for someone to see us as #valuable, we are waiting for them to #validate our existence. We are waiting for them to validate that we are #loveable; that we are #worthy of being #loved.
We come undone when things don't go our way; always listening to the mental chatter chiding us into believing we've failed. We are our own worst enemy as we listen to the negative voice inside of us that won't let us rest. That voice is #fear and it is worried you will find out your #greatness. It holds you in a place of no action and indecision. Everything begins within. Nothing is found outside of yourself. That's when you need to find the #peace within you.