I love Zumba. With it I've gotten back down to my pre-pregnancy weight from my first son. I'm fit and healthy, back in my size 4 jeans and I do it at least twice a week, so I don't feel "guilty" about what i eat, because I burn it all off. Dance it off!
I think the point is that you are content in every aspect of life. Change isn't necessarily a bad or good thing, sometimes it happens and sometimes its needed. Regardless, be thankful for where you are at.
Exactly if you don't know how others feel or what they truly want in their life don't make up shit with your small mind and big mouth saying your imagination and delusion when it's just you lying to yourself.